Several years ago, I experienced harassment at work. I am not going to go into details of what happened because the details of it are not the point. The point is that I was not able to stand up for myself. A great lesson was hidden in that experience. I did not stand up for …
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Did I do something wrong?
Different empaths, have different dark sides. By dark sides, I mean the sides of them that really really torment them, hurt them and make their lives miserable. For me, my dark side is always thinking I did something wrong. I play a team sport and there is a couple of women on my team who …
Medieval times mentality in the area of dating
I am only in my mid-30s but here is something I find really outdated about my approach to dating. I was raised to believe that a man should be pursuing me hard and I should be keeping as aloof as possible. I grew up reading magazines and books about this, hearing it on TV, etc. …
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Dreams do come true! Be ready!
We all wish for a certain type of job that would pay a certain amount of money, a certain partner, a certain whatever else… the question is “Are we ready for that?” Few years ago, I met a man. He was everything I could ever dream about and infinitely more. More so, he really really …
Lighten UP!
As an empath, I feel everything and everyone. As a result, I often feel heavy. I do not feel joyous, I do not feel playful or happy unless for a few seconds because I am constantly burdened by heavy emotions, most of which are not even mine. Seems like most of my life, I have …
You are so quiet!
They: “You are so quiet!” Empath(thinks): “I am not. I am reading you” OR “I finished reading you and now I am bored with this empty conversation.”
Internet is not the real world (neither is the “real” world)
It is extraordinary how much our lives are tied up with internet. We shop online, we bank online, we connect with friends online and …we date online. The last one is especially concerning. Online world is not a real world however. It is kind of like that game that used to exist (still exists?!) “Second …
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What if someone does not want to have kids…
Most of my adult life, people have been asking me if I want to have children. When I was in my early twenties, the answer was easy – “I am too young. May be later”. Now, in my mid thirties, I am more certain of the answer – I do not want to have children. …
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Tuning in and Importance of Writing
We all have the ability to tune into the energy of anything: places, people, books, songs, etc. For me, I find it very important to write down when an especially amazing day or an event takes places or when I feel the most powerful because when I feel less powerful and tired, I can re-read …
Mind Zoomies
There are these funny pictures of dogs doing so called “zoomies” which means a dog is going 30 miles an hour in circles, usually excited about something. Our minds tend to do zoomies too and usually around something negative. It would be so much better if the zoomies were around something positive and exciting. The …
Free The Empath 