I was waiting for an appointment and there was a man who was also waiting. The wait was very long so we had a lot of time to talk about different things. He shared with me that his girlfriend was traveling for 2 weeks for work and he really missed her. He talked about how …
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For those who feel they do not belong here….
I just watched a documentary about DJ Avicii and wow such a powerful and tragic life. He was an introvert. Quiet, intuitive and brilliant. He was surrounded by people who saw him as source of lots of $$$. It was all good in the beginning but when he needed help and told people around him …
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Fuck Evil
I am reading a book right now and there is one sentence in there, which really struck a cord with me. It is about how there are people who can break other people physically and there are other people which are far more destructive who break others’ spirit. That last part made me cry and …
Who took away your ability to dream?
A couple of posts ago, I wrote about PTSD from dating. I am sure I am not the only one. In fact, I know I am not the only one. If you research PTSD, you will see how fragile our psyche is and it does not take a lot to shift it. I tried to …
Let’s meet in the middle
I often hear from other empaths and HSPs that other people do not connect well with them. They do not feel understood especially when it comes to dating and romantic relationships. As an extreme empath, I can read the person on date one. I can know about them more than they are willing to admit …
Empaths, Anxiety and PTSD from dating
Around my 30th birthday, I was dating a guy. A couple of days before my birthday, he said he was so excited to give me a really cool surprise on the day of my birthday. When the day came, I jumped out of bed and was so excited to spend the day with him. By …
Empaths and Love
I might be jumping around on this subject because it is really broad and big… Love… we all search for it especially empaths who crave connection and depth 24/7 and feel incomplete without it. I think our view of love and relationships in FUCKED UP in a major way. We enter relationships with the idea …
I will chase you until you show interest…And hence lies the greatest lesson.
Dating is weird. I experienced this a few times… A guy would be chasing me hard. Calling me, messaging me, checking in with me… When I show so-so interest, he is chasing me hard. And then, God forbid, I reciprocate… He goes “Woa …I am not ready. “ I am yet to understand why this …
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Medieval times mentality in the area of dating
I am only in my mid-30s but here is something I find really outdated about my approach to dating. I was raised to believe that a man should be pursuing me hard and I should be keeping as aloof as possible. I grew up reading magazines and books about this, hearing it on TV, etc. …
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Dreams do come true! Be ready!
We all wish for a certain type of job that would pay a certain amount of money, a certain partner, a certain whatever else… the question is “Are we ready for that?” Few years ago, I met a man. He was everything I could ever dream about and infinitely more. More so, he really really …
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