I am reading a book right now and there is one sentence in there, which really struck a cord with me. It is about how there are people who can break other people physically and there are other people which are far more destructive who break others’ spirit. That last part made me cry and …
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Who took away your ability to dream?
A couple of posts ago, I wrote about PTSD from dating. I am sure I am not the only one. In fact, I know I am not the only one. If you research PTSD, you will see how fragile our psyche is and it does not take a lot to shift it. I tried to …
Let’s meet in the middle
I often hear from other empaths and HSPs that other people do not connect well with them. They do not feel understood especially when it comes to dating and romantic relationships. As an extreme empath, I can read the person on date one. I can know about them more than they are willing to admit …
INFJ vs other species
I am an INFJ from a very capital INFJ x1000 and an empath. Often we, empaths, HSPs and INFJs get really depressed and disillusioned with other people. We feel that no one understands us. No one can relate how deeply we are able to feel. No one is willing to go that deep. If we …
Empaths, Anxiety and PTSD from dating
Around my 30th birthday, I was dating a guy. A couple of days before my birthday, he said he was so excited to give me a really cool surprise on the day of my birthday. When the day came, I jumped out of bed and was so excited to spend the day with him. By …
Knocking on doors that are actually walls.
One thing that has always weirded me out about this planet is how closed and emotionally cold many people are. And it is understandable because too many try to take advantage of each other and the result is an army of closed-hearted people who just want to be loved but they are terrified at the …
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Empaths and Love
I might be jumping around on this subject because it is really broad and big… Love… we all search for it especially empaths who crave connection and depth 24/7 and feel incomplete without it. I think our view of love and relationships in FUCKED UP in a major way. We enter relationships with the idea …
Having no expectations
So many things in our lives are lies. Media, social media, etc. We pretend that we know someone or something when in reality we do not. We could be in a relationship with someone and claim to know who they are but we do not. We do not know what the person is really thinking. …
I will chase you until you show interest…And hence lies the greatest lesson.
Dating is weird. I experienced this a few times… A guy would be chasing me hard. Calling me, messaging me, checking in with me… When I show so-so interest, he is chasing me hard. And then, God forbid, I reciprocate… He goes “Woa …I am not ready. “ I am yet to understand why this …
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Feeling equal…
Several years ago, I experienced harassment at work. I am not going to go into details of what happened because the details of it are not the point. The point is that I was not able to stand up for myself. A great lesson was hidden in that experience. I did not stand up for …
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